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Come out of the Rat Race
A student who got 3.8 CGPA is unhappy because another student got 4 CGPA.
The student with 4 CGPA is unhappy because he/she is not placed in a Core Company.
Student placed in a Core Company is unhappy because his colleague has more salary than him/her.
The person having the highest salary in a company is unhappy because he/she has no time at all to enjoy their life with friends and family.
This is what happens when you get trapped in the infinite rat race. You are never happy. And you will never appreciate or be grateful for the life you have.
Come out of the Rat Race.
Bill Gates was invited by a high school to give a lecture. He arrived by helicopter, took the paper from the pocket where he had written eleven items. He read everything in less than 5 minutes, was applauded for more than 10 minutes non-stop, thanked him and left in his helicopter. What was written is very interesting, read:
1. Life isn’t easy — get used to it.
2. The world is not concerned about your self-esteem. The world expects you to do something useful for it BEFORE you feel good about yourself.
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3. You will not earn $20,000 a month once you leave school. You won’t be vice president of a company with a car and phone available until you’ve managed to buy your own car and phone.
4. If you find your teacher rude, wait until you have a boss. He will not feel sorry for you.
5. Selling old newspapers or working while on vacation is not beneath your social standing. Your grandparents have a different word for it: they call it opportunity.
6. If you fail, it’s not your parents’ fault. So do not whine about your mistakes, learn from them.
7. Before you were born, your parents weren’t as critical as they are now. They only got that way from paying your bills, washing your clothes and hearing you say they’re “ridiculous.” So before saving the planet for the next generation wanting to fix the mistakes of your parent’s generation, try cleaning your own room.
8. Your school may have blurred the distinction between winners and losers, but life isn’t like that. In some schools, you don’t repeat more than a year and you have as many chances as you need to get it right. This looks like absolutely NOTHING in real life. If you step on the ball, you’re fired… STREET!!! Do it right the first time!
9. Life is not divided into semesters. You won’t always have summers off, and it’s unlikely that other employees will help you with your tasks at the end of each term.
10. Television is NOT real life. In real life, people have to leave the bar or the club and go to work.
11. Be nice to the CDFs (those students that others think are assholes). There is a high probability that you will work FOR one of them.”
Know these and know peace. I come in PEACE
A Rat Swallowed A Diamond
A Rat Swallowed A Diamond. The Owner Of The Diamond Contacted A Man To Kill It.
When The Rat Hunter Arrived, There Were More Than 1000 Rats Bunched Up And One Sitting By Itself Away From The Rest. He Spotted & Killed The One Sitting By Itself & To The owner’s Surprise, It Was The One That Had Swallowed The Diamond.
The Amazed Owner Of The Diamond Asked, “How Did You Know It Was That Rat?” He Responded Very Easy, When Idiots Get Rich, They Don’t Mix With Others.
— Chinua Achebe
It’s Better to Build Boys Than Mend Men
Truett Cathy’s “It’s Better to Build Boys Than Mend Men” transcends a parenting manual. It’s a clarion call for adults to take an active role in shaping the next generation of men. Here’s a deeper exploration of the eight key takeaways that can lay the foundation for strong, responsible men:
1. Mentorship Matters: The book highlights the profound impact mentors can have on young boys. Cathy’s own story exemplifies how a positive male role model can shape values, work ethic, and future trajectory. It encourages adults, fathers, uncles, teachers, and community members to step up and provide guidance, support, and a listening ear to young boys in their lives.
2. Building Strong Values: “It’s Better to Build Boys Than Mend Men” emphasizes the importance of instilling core values in boys at a young age. Honesty, integrity, respect, and a strong work ethic aren’t afterthoughts; they’re the building blocks of a fulfilling life. The book offers guidance on how adults can model and reinforce these values through everyday interactions, conversations, and by leading by example.
3. Discipline Breeds Freedom: Cathy argues that effective discipline isn’t about punishment, but about fostering self-control and responsibility. The book advocates for clear expectations, consistent consequences that are age-appropriate, and open communication. This approach helps boys understand the impact of their choices and develop the ability to make sound decisions
4. Building Bridges of Communication: Creating an environment of trust and open communication is crucial for healthy development. The book encourages adults to be active listeners, validate boys’ feelings, and provide opportunities for them to express themselves openly and honestly. This fosters a safe space for boys to ask questions, share their struggles, and learn healthy communication skills.
5. Beyond the Ballpark: Cultivating Diverse Passions: While athletics can provide valuable lessons in teamwork and perseverance, “It’s Better to Build Boys Than Mend Men” encourages nurturing a variety of interests in boys. This could include music, arts, technology, or community service. Exploring diverse interests helps boys discover their passions, develop well-rounded personalities, and build a strong sense of self.
6. The Power of Positive Reinforcement: The book emphasizes the importance of positive reinforcement and encouragement. Recognizing and celebrating boys’ achievements, efforts, and positive behaviors builds self-esteem and motivates them to continue making good choices. Even small acknowledgements can go a long way in shaping self-confidence and a sense of competence.
7. Challenge by Design: Fostering Resilience: Cathy argues that boys need healthy challenges to grow and develop resilience. This doesn’t mean creating unnecessary hardship, but providing opportunities for them to problem-solve, overcome obstacles, and learn from their mistakes. This fosters a growth mindset and the ability to bounce back from setbacks.
8. Faith as a Guiding Light: The book explores the potential role of faith in shaping a boy’s character. While not prescriptive, Cathy suggests that faith can provide a moral compass, a sense of purpose, and a foundation for strong values. It can offer a framework for understanding right and wrong, compassion for others, and a sense of belonging to a larger community.
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